Four Years Ago

I live in Pittsburg, KS. Southeast Kansas is no stranger to severe weather warnings. Four years ago, on May 22, 2011, the tornado sirens sounded. I unplugged my sewing machines, went in the basement, and watched the weather on TV. The storms didn’t materialize here, so I went back to work. A few minutes later, I checked the weather again.  The same storm system that skipped us had devastated Joplin, MO, a town of 50,000. I’ve lived within 100 miles of Joplin, in several different towns, for the past 30 years, and for the past fourteen have lived here in Pittsburg, which is just 25 miles from Joplin. Joplin is where we go out to eat, to shop at Sam’s Club, to do anything we can’t do here in little Pittsburg. I watched the news in horror, to learn that one of the two hospitals was destroyed; over 40 doctor’s offices, many businesses and churches, the high school, part of a middle school and several elementary schools were gone. As the hours ticked by, we learned that more than 160 people had been killed; more than 900 were injured. About 8000 buildings had been destroyed.

There wasn’t much I could do. I don’t drive a bulldozer, and I don’t have a chainsaw. Then, I got this idea… It became far bigger than I could ever have imagined!

Thousands of people had lost everything. I knew that the summer would pass, and school would start, somehow, somewhere, even though all those schools would not yet be re-built. Do you remember being excited about the start of the school year when you were young? I certainly do!  And I always had a new dress for the first day of school. I loved those new first-day-of-school dresses; I think my Dad took a picture of me every year, and for years I remembered what I wore for the first day of each new grade. Here’s one of those dresses – fifth grade, I think…


Most of my newsletter readers make children’s garments. I sent out a newsletter asking them to please consider making one or more first-day-of-school outfits for children in Joplin who had lost everything.

Well, within minutes my request had gone viral! I suddenly had a full-time job responding to questions about what I named Project First Day. Hundreds of people wanted to be a part of this.  Lezette Thomason of Children’s Corner shipped out over 300 patterns at no charge for people to use to make garments. Kind people wanted to donate quilts and shoes and toys, but I had to respectfully say “no thank you,” as I only had one living room to store things, and, at the time, no way to distribute them!

Soon, the boxes started arriving. 


I rented a post office box for the summer, and made daily trips to the post office. The workers soon knew my box number, and had me drive around to the back of the building and helped me load up my little car. I spent my days communicating with contributors, unpacking boxes, and sorting garments by size. Several sewing guilds worked together to send hundreds of garments each.

Each garment was an act of kindness from an anonymous giver to an unknown recipient.

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I asked people to write notes and pin them to the garments.

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Some of the notes were so touching – some wrote of losing everying thing in hurricane Katrina, and knowing what it was like to lose all your belongings.

Eventually, I received 1474 outfits – some, single garments, while others were complete ensembles, including things such as embellished socks and hair bows. These are just some of the 38 big plastic tubs I packed up!


This is what the trash collection guys got to pick up one week!


As the first day of school approached, I still didn’t have a way to distribute all the clothes. Charities were overwhelmed with other more pressing needs. I contacted the media, and finally, our local newspaper wrote an article about the project.  A reporter for the Joplin newspaper saw the article and interviewed me.  A local TV station interviewed me. The principal of one of the destroyed elementary schools contacted me. Finally, I had a way to get these things to the kids for whom they were meant!

With just a couple days before school was to start, I rented a truck to take the tubs of clothing to Joplin, to the old retired school building that had been brought out of retirement to serve as the school for these kids.


Well, the article in the Joplin Globe was picked up by the Associated Press, and what was a hectic few days became truly memorable.  ABC World News Radio contacted me and I did a phone interview. CBS News contacted me and sent a reporter and photographer to my house. Here’s the CBS photographer with her camera set up on books on my ironing board!


After the interview, I changed clothes and drove to Joplin for the distribution. This is during set-up at Irving; some of the clothes had yet to be unpacked, and some went to other schools. It got a lot more crowded  – and crazy – after this!


Good Morning America did a piece on the distribution.  My interview with CBS Evening News was on the next day.

A month or so later, The Quilt Life magazine contacted me for an article, which appeared in the magazine.


That was pretty much the end of Project First Day for me. And Joplin? The city has done a great job of rebuilding. The scars are still there, in the landscape, and certainly in the lives of many. The new Mercy Hospital opened a few months ago. The new Joplin High school opened last year. Our favorite restaurant was rebuilt and has been open for about a year and a half.

And Irving Elementary School was rebuilt near the site of the old, devastated hospital. I haven’t been there, but photos of it show it to be a bright, colorful, beautiful place.

Thanks to all those who helped make Project First Day a reality!



Mother’s Day

Here in the U.S., we celebrate Mother’s Day this Sunday.  One of the most memorable things I’ve ever done with my Mom is the creation of “Gloria’s Garden.”

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The quilt is 73″ x 73″, and was made in 2009. Mom chose the fabrics and pieced the top (a variation of “Blooming Nine Patch”, from Traditions with a Twist by Blanche Young and Dalene Young Stone.)  I did the embroidery and quilting.

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The lace border and all of the 3-D flowers are digitized free-standing lace, made from over 60,000 yards of thread.  My embroidery machines logged nearly 7,000,000 stitches in the making of this quilt, including over 3,000,000 in the lace border alone.  Embroidery designs are from Zundt and OESD.  That, of course, does not include all the stitching in the quilting, which was all free-motion.


The quilt won 1st place in Computer-Aided Machine Embroidery at Houston International Quilt Festival 2009.


And to my breathless delight, the quilt won the $12,000 Gammill Longarm Machine Workmanship award at the American Quilter’s Society Paducah 2010 show. (Note: I quilt on a table-set longarm machine, not a frame system. I move the fabric, not the machine. But that year, the categories were divided by the type of machine, instead of whether the machine was moved over the quilt, or the quilt was moved under the machine. The rules have since changed.)

My daughter surprised my Mom by travelling to the award’s ceremony.


To make it even more special, Annie, who is a talented jewelry artist, created matching silver brooches for Mom and me.


The flower echoes the shape of some of the free-standing lace embroidered flowers in the quilt, and the flowers I quilted.  The flower center features a small piece of one of the fabrics used in the quilt.

The quilt is now in the permanent collection of the National Quilt Museum in Paducah, KY. The curator of the museum took my photo with the quilt when I was there “visiting” it.

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Happy Mother’s Day, Mom!


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